STANDARD OPERATING PROCEDURE: THE SCANDAL WAS A COVERUP -- ILLUSTRATED SCREENPLAY & SCREENCAP GALLERY
If you want to be their equal, you gotta be strong. They're going to try and control you. You need to step up and show them who's boss: "I'm not going to take that. I'm not going to let you power me, you know, control me because I'm a woman and you're a man. It's not going to happen." Even though it's the military.
I mean, hell, if you're in the military you've got a gun. Use it. If I would have thought about it then, by God, I would have. But I was blinded by being in love with a man.
Graner, he's really charming. If you didn't know him, and you just meet him, you'd be drawn into him.
In a crowded room, he'd be the one to look at. He would draw the attention.
If the attention isn't all on him, he'll get it there. That's what he does. He thrives on it. If you're not paying attention to him, he'll make comments about you, and this and that, you know. Whatever you want to hear, he'll say it. And he knew. He knew. And I was what, 20 years old when I met him? He was 34. He had 14 years more experience than I did. So, he knew what to say, what to do.